Mission Post #12

This post of this meeting was summarized and written by Don Jeffries.

Letter to Sr. Darlene

Yesterday morning we had an hour long visit, with Father Marcelino, who is the Associate Pastor of our Parish.  He is our newest priest here and from the Philippines.  A very conservative person, who knows the value of American freedom as the Philippines were basically enslaved for 300 years, by the Spanish.  First he became a priest and then he became a medical doctor.  His personal mission, in the Philippines, is the caring of discarded babies, who were born of unwed mothers.  He donates his salary, from here, to that mission.  So he relates to your own mission of Mother’s House, which we discussed.

The Pastor is Father Armando, whom I think may have received a letter of enquiry from Glenmary Sisters, concerning Annie and I.  Father Armando is finishing up his vacation and will be back at the end of this week.  I say this because it is relevant later in this report.

Father Marcelino discussed many aspects of our trip, to Caruthersville, with us.  Remember that I sent you an email reporting what had transpired, when we attended the Catholic Charities meeting?  We also informed Father of that.

Bottom line is that even if Annie and I are not accepted, for temporary home mission work with you, we are still going to visit Caruthersville and bring any items donated by the Parish here, for Mother’s House.

By the way, I have noticed indications that we will be accepted, including from you, but of course none of us can assume that we will be accepted and must act accordingly until the formal acceptance is received.  Just wanted you to know that we know.

Father does know that our application is still pending.

Some of his ideas are the same as those thought of at the Catholic Charities meeting.

I need to compose a two minute presentation concerning Glenmary Sisters, your Pemiscot County mission, our visiting, Mother’s House and the requirements for Mother’s House.  This presentation will be delivered, by Annie and I, at weekend Masses, on both Saturday and Sunday.  The appeal will also be placed in the Parish Bulletin.  All of this is pending approval by Father Armando, who Father Marcelino will confer with next week.

We already discussed the receiving, warehousing, packaging and transportation of the received items, which Annie and I have experience with, from a project Annie once achieved for another project concerning an orphanage.  Oh…if we are so blessed, what we cannot transport via car we will ship.

This brings me to the point of asking you if you can please compose a priority list of items required, for Mother’s House not only for continuous need, but also for the time we will be there, during the winter season.  The list will be printed up and distributed.  One item we are including is WalMart Gift Cards, to be used by you.

Father Marcelino suggested that you write a letter to Father Armando explaining the Glenmary Sisters Order, their mission in general, your respective mission and what Annie and I might be doing there or even Sister Sharon writing it.  The address is:

Saint Anthony Catholic Church, 7820 Fox Road, Hughson CA  95326

I told him that you and other Sisters will go to Parishes and promote the Glenmary Order and its Missions, to receive donations.  He stated that donations, for Glenmary Sisters, could also be requested; therefore I plan to use the “Adopt a Sister Program” form, from Kinship, to include in the handout.  I will include the Glenmary Sisters web site as well.

Also in the handout, I will include the Kinship articles on Mother’s House.  That is if it is okay to do so.  Father suggested providing photos, for a more tangible effect.  This too he will request permission, from Father Armando.

I just noticed that I need to contact Richard, for reprint permission.

Father mentioned having some kind of feedback, from us, concerning our trip.  I told him that one of the Parish Council members suggested that Annie do photos and I do reports, to be sent by email, to the Parish, or placed on the Parish’s Face Book page.  As I said, in my previous email, we want to talk to you concerning the photography protocol.

Father views us as representing the Parish, in our activity, in your mission.  All of this rather amazes me.  In my mind, we were just going to visit back home and assist you.  I was clueless concerning all of the formalities and now the Parish involvement here.

Look forward to hearing back from you soon.

Mission Post #11

I made an appointment to talk with Fr. Marcelino and then cancelled it.  I wanted to talk with him about the mission but it felt forced and I couldn't focus on what it was I really wanted to talk about so . . . I cancelled the appointment.

This past Sunday, after Mass announcements told of a meeting to be presented by Catholic Charities on responding to the call of Pope Francis.  The agenda for the evening was to discuss serving the poor, working for peace, and caring for God's creation all under the umbrella of Catholic social teaching.  

I thought this meeting might give me a place to start for pulling together the loose threads of my unfocused thoughts on what this mission would mean for me.  I knew what I expected for Don - something positive, a way to inner peace and an escape from the negativity that our political activism has surrounded us in.  Like most new things I take on, I just commit and then put one foot in front of the other and follow the bread crumbs.  The meaning and purpose always seems to come afterwards.

There were about ten of us there, seven from the Hispanic community and Don, myself, and Melanie.  I was relieved that there were ten there, I was disappointed that there weren't more.  I guess this was a sort of Matthew 22:14 moment.  By the end of the evening, we had navigated some dangerous waters.

Political buzz words such as globalization, climate change, social justice and redistribution of wealth reared up.  Don listened closely, damping down his feelings about these buzz words.  I focused on the messenger and tried to determine if this was pure Catholic social teaching or if it was tainted by catholic liberalism and humanism and socialism.  Lots of isms trying to do what Christ taught us, all of them taking out the spirit that makes His teachings whole.  Absent God, we really have nothing.

After the meeting, we told the group what we had planned for January and both of us were completely unprepared for the reaction.  All of a sudden, there was a community of people reaching out to help us help others.   YLI, KC, the Tuesday night Rosary ladies, Life Teen, Matthew's Ministry - with them there would be a way to receive assistance, prayers, and perhaps even goods to bring to Mother's House.  Fr. Marcelino spoke of perhaps setting up a sister parish relationship.

Suddenly I feel more focused; I have more of an idea of what I can bring to our work whatever that will be.  I'm going to call Fr. M. this week and get this ball rolling this week.  

Mission Post #10

Today, and all this past week in fact, I've been thinking on things to finish and how that relates to going forward with the idea of the Mission.  Mission is a serious effort.  What I am doing and its outcome has a direct effect on others.  It's more than a job, hence the naming of it as Mission.  What I leave behind will echo far beyond me.

It's one thing to lollygag at home and put thing off until tomorrow what can be done today.  However, I can't do that on Mission.  So, today I started looking for some pictures that Don needs.  I have no idea where they are so I'm looking through all the boxes and albums I have.  Believe me, that is A. LOT.  In the course of starting the work, I ran across pictures on CDs.  I have copies of them but uploading the CDs will save time on the other end of scanning the copies.

So far, the pictures for Don haven't surface but I've uploads seven CDs and gone through six boxes.  I have a lot more to go and feel a strong sense of purpose.  I will be busy for the next couple of days.

Mission Post #9

Well, it's been a bit of time since my last post.  The world has been providing me with lots of reasons to be depressed for the future of our country.  Abortion.  Homosexual marriage.  HHS mandate coming at us like a screaming runaway train.  The craziness of our politicians, particularly Nancy Pelosi.  The lack of support for the U.S. military.  And more.  I allowed myself to fall into the trap of believing that my world, the world we all live in, would derail hopelessly onto the path of becoming a new Sodom.  The I read this.   

After reading How to be an annoying Catholic, I resolved to:

• Laugh more
• Be the real me
• Be unexpected
• Know what I believe and why
• Grow a backbone
• Love - live the example of love the sinner, hate the sin
• Pray more

I think God meant for some of this to be easy.  In fact, the list wouldn't have had to exist at all but for our fall from Grace.  No, what should be so easy - love one another - is the hardest this we can do.  Love has powerful enemies - Fear. Hate. Anger. Bullishness. Contempt. The view of tolerance as a virtue. And more.  These are all weapons that we use on each other almost indiscriminately.

I've felt the slings and arrows of all these enemies and these weapons haven't been limited to just "those liberals" attacking "we conservatives".   I've noticed that these weapons are used whenever any ideological brethren strays from an approved line of belief.    Consider Juan Williams and his ejection from NPR or, more prosaically, the damaged career of The Dixie Chicks when lead singer, Natalie Maines, infamously criticized President Bush on the eve of the Iraqi invasion.

As I sit here mulling matters, sorrowing over the state of my world, and wondering what social calamity will hit us next, I really have to just remind myself to suck it up, quit the pity party, focus on the rules above and pay close attention to the example of Pope Francis who simply "lives it" and that, my friends, is no simple thing at all.

Mission Post #8

One of the requirements of being selected for volunteer work is completing an online class on child safety - how to detect and report behavior that suggests potential abuse and inappropriate interaction with children and vulnerable adults.  This 2 hour course took me 6-7 hours to complete over a two day period.  

The format and study was easy to work with and accomplish.  The subject matter, on the other hand was not easy to get through.  I was surprised by what I didn't know, the sheer awfulness some people.  As a consequence, it took me a lot longer to get through.  I also wanted a complete record of the course so page by 68 pages, I copied and pasted it into a word document.  

Not knowing what will be expected of us, I know that taking this course could add up to just being a formality.  If it isn't, I sincerely hope that I detect no evidence of actually abuse.  I know we will come face to face with some fierce poverty but neglect and abuse? - well, I hope not.  

Based on what I've read , volunteers aren't left alone with children or vulnerable adults so quite possibly Don and I will work as partners.

I haven't thought about it much this week but the week is young.  I DID have an idea though, on Saturday, the day we went to Sonora to attend a memorial service.  As I listened to Fr. John Fitzgerald speak of why we are drawn to gather together, he reminded us that it isn't death that draws us together, it is love (perhaps a novel idea to some of us).  His words nudged a germ of an idea on recording the experience of this trip.

We will be on the road for at least four months and we will have a chance to meet all sorts of people who may feel very different from what I grew up with.  Don is very adaptable to the slower pace of life and the Midwestern and Southern thought processes.  I'm not.  Very Catholic and Conservative I may be but I'm also firmly imprinted with a California mentality.  It will be a golden opportunity for me to:

• talk and listen
• ask questions
• find out what people know
• discover their points of view

I expect a lot of differences.  I'll take lots of sets of pictures, series that tell a story.  I've also thought about putting the information together and creating a mini-documentary of what we encountered and who we met.   The materials needed will be part of the organized supplies I plan to bring with me so I can mitigate the lack of some art or writing tool that will make my record keeping easier.  But in the end it really is still all just thoughts.

Mission Post #7

I took a step back for a few days.  I've been feeling very muzzled lately like I don't have a right to dissent from current popular mores.  The feeling sneaked up on me over a period of time and the end result is that I have become angry that I am feeling effectively shut up.   

My position of abortion, same sex marriage, and speaking freely if I disagree run counter to our current repressive culture.   

I've been thinking a lot about the mission this week and I realized today that I really need to do some interior housecleaning.  I'm thinking of finding a spiritual advisor to help me along the road.  I know a couple of priests, Sam West in particular, whom I might approach.

I think part of what holds us back from seeking spiritual advise is our sense that we can be self-reliant.  I know that is one of my big problems so I don't turn to God first when troubled.  I stumble around in the dark a lot.  I must admit that I have gotten a lot better at turning to God than when I was much younger.  But at the moment I feel a bit behind the eight ball.  There are serious changes coming up in the not too distant future and I want to get this right.

Mission Post #6

Just a short check-in.  Don is gone all day today.  No car for me.  The front room is calling.  Today I'm gathering up all my crocheting and embroidery supplies to start working on now and to have ready for the big trip.  Along the way, I'll dump more stuff from the front room.

I ordered some books from Amazon yesterday.  I'll be doing this periodically to prep my travel library.  I won't take them all with me, of course, but I'll have plenty to choose from.

I've been thinking about clothes and totally failing. Typical. I think I just need to start a list of whatever I think of and then hone away.

One good step forward is the email I sent to Hewlett's Auction House a few weeks ago.  I spoke with Mrs. Hewlett yesterday and she is forwarding the information about my prints to a local Turlock expert.  Perhaps I'll get some guidance from her and get these prints sold.  It would be nice to have the money to add to our travel fund.